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A very important component of the overall
recovery process is establishing a support network for your
self. This network may consist of family members, friends,
online buddies or any other network or person from whom you
can get support.
An important component of the healing process is to talk
about your experience and to share your experience with
others. Talking about your experience can bring comfort to
you as well as be informative to the person with whom you
are speaking; it helps others gain an insight as to what you
went through and perhaps a better understanding of your
experience and feelings. It is most helpful to you and to
others if you can be comprehensive with your descriptions
including comments on how you felt during your experience as
well as share how you are feeling now. With this
information, your network of people and/or this individual
can support you and give you encouragement as you encounter
frustrations during the recovery process.
Be as open and honest with your network and/or this
individual so that they can get a full understanding as to
how you are feeling û they can't help you if you aren't
open and honest. Try not to keep feelings stored up inside;
more than likely, you will be experiencing many new feelings
and emotions. Research has shown that telling your story
over and over to as many people as possible is an important
part of the healing process and can protect against long
term psychological distress.
Remember, it is entirely normal to have a wide range of
feelings, anywhere from sadness and frustration to a deep
since of grief and loss during the recovery phase. Feeling
mildly "blue" can be expected; however, if your
feelings become increasingly severe it is important to
consult a specialist as this could be a sign of a more
serious condition.
Also, it is helpful to include someone of your support
team in all aspects of the recovery process. If possible,
invite someone to attend follow-up doctor appointments and
therapy sessions with you, another set of ears are always
helpful and that extra encouragement during rehab could make
a huge difference for you.
In conclusion, it is strongly recommended that you have
someone and/or a network of people you can turn to for
support... even as simple as an extra set of ears to listen
to you as you share your experiences. On the other hand,
these people in your support network may also be able to
help you with everyday tasks that you may be struggling with
such as grocery shopping, house cleaning, and laundry, or
even transportation to and from your therapy and/or doctor
appointments. It's always easier and more fun to do these
activities with a friend!
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